Diamond engagement ring: Understanding the true meaning of this symbol
True love between two people traditionally ends up in a vow - a promise to love and cherish each other for as long as they both live. A couple decides to take the next step after one of them proposes, usually asking the “Will you” question with a ring.It could be called a promise ring, a simple engagement band or a diamond engagement ring that the couple wears before their wedding to state their betrothal.More than that, it is a symbol of a pre-marriage vow that they are ready to share their life with the other under death to them part.
It is not easy to shop for an engagement ring especially if you don’t know what to start or what features should be considered.Of course, it is always easier if the couples shop together, but that is not always the case. So if you’re going through with the surprise, familiarize yourself with the styles and designs of an engagement ring. And then there is the cut and clarity of the gemstone, its carat weight, color and the design of the ring itself. One example of a popular ring design is the trinity or trilogy ring, a three-stone diamond engagement ring that is seen to represent the past, present and future relationship of the couple.
The current tradition is that men wear one wedding ring, which could also be his engagement band. For the women, the engagement ring and the wedding band is different and separate, but in some cases wielded together after the wedding so the two rings will form as one ring. But the fact remains that when you decide to get married, you would need to purchase at least three rings.While these are usually bought separately, many jewelry sellers offer jewelry wedding bands sets which include a mens wedding band, a ladies engagement ring and a ladies wedding ring as matched set.
Getting married means that you are giving your love and dedication to you partner forever, which is the reason why diamonds have been associated with marriage through its rings.The strength of a marriage is associated with the strength of the toughest stone, diamond, such is why diamonds are the popular gemstone to use in marriage rings. In the Mohs scale of mineral hardness, diamond is graded perfect 10, the highest grade for mineral strength. On the practical side, diamonds are very resistant to scratches which would make it perfect for wedding rings that are used everyday.
It is important to do some research and set your budget before shopping for a diamond engagement ring. Diamonds, in itself, makes a ring more expensive than others because it is precious commodity with increasing value.The average price is somewhere between $3,500 and $4,000, depending on the diamond’s color, carat weight, cut and clarity. The trick is to look around until you find the ring you feel your girlfriend will like and, at the same time, falling within your budget limit. It is what the ring symbolizes that matters and not the size, cut and cost of the stone attached to it.
What every couple should remember is that the ring is only a physical representation of their love, and not the focus in the relationship.There are online shops and jewelry stores to guide you in picking the best ring at a price you can afford.Also, consider buying jewelry wedding bands in a set since these usually come in cheaper. Just enjoy shopping! This should be an exciting moment for the buyer as much as it will be for the recipient of the ultimate question and the engagement ring.
Popping that question and presenting a diamond engagement ring is a big moment for any couple. After all, a diamond ring represents a long lasting love and eternity which is what marriage is all about. But contrary to this traditional belief, marriage rings need not have diamonds in them. For those with budgetary concerns, there are wedding rings made of other beautiful stones and affordable set of jewelry wedding bands as an option. The important thing is the celebration of true love between the couple, and not the material symbol of it.
- Lorraine Jacobs
